My Dream Girl

            I want love, I know this much s true what kind of love am I looking for? Good question, let me think…

             I want a girl… I know that too… I want someone I can laugh with… be stupid with, be accepted with. I want girl that’s not submissive and likes asserting her opinion. I want a girl that can laugh at herself and those around her. Someone who doesn’t take someone seriously. I want someone who wants me for me, not just my body, though that’s not a bad thing…. I want to feel needed, I want to BE needed.

            I want a girl that likes herself, and is comfortable with her own sexuality… I think culture right now focuses a lot on males being uncomfortable with tier sexuality but girls have the same problem…. I want a girl that can talk about herself sexually and expresses herself… Too many women in this world are taught to be proper and told not even to talk about something as mundane as female masturbation, let alone do it, I want someone confident with who she is, someone that doesn’t listen to culture and isn’t worried about what I think of her… I don’t want a girl correcting herself all the time.

            But don’t get me wrong… I’m not saying I want a girl that’s all about sex… what I want probably more than sex is someone I can grow old with… someone with maturity, but common sense to know when she can act immature, I don’t want a girl I can have a good time with, I want to have a GREAT time….. when I’m with my dream girl, time fades away and nothing else  matters. I want a girl that knows how to express herself, and realizes and excepts my faults, I have a lot of them, and acceptance is something important to me. I want to be able to feel young with my dream girl when I’m around her, even when we are 60 and 70 years old.

            I want a girl that believes in herself. She’s not over confident or cocky, but she’s not a defeatist. She isn’t always down on herself. She knows who she is, she knows what she can get., I want a girl who dreams, and fights for her dreams. I want a girl who believes that she can get what she wants. I want a girl that has hope, and thinks she is worth the damn I know she is.

            I want a girl who isn’t always looking for a pick-me-up by putting herself down.

            I want a girl that is concerned about how she looks but not because other people tell her about some cracked up scheme about beauty but because she likes feeling good to herself. I want a girl that believes me when I say that she’s perfect just the way she is. I want a girl that actually feels like the most important person in the world when she’s around me, I don’t want a girl that is always talking about how ugly she is, when she really isn’t. I want a girl that isn’t afraid to say she loves me. I want a girl that knows she is a woman, I want a woman that knows Id do anything for her, and lets me help her when she needs it.  I want a girl that knows that she’s what I want. That’s what I want, that’s MY love

……. And you’ll do well to note I didn’t ONCE talk about caring what she looks like